*FAQ
Cast of Characters
- Who is Sognatrice? Who is Michelle? Who *are* you?
I am Michelle Fabio, and I write this here blog. Read more about me on my “about” page and also in the next section below.
When I started this blog, I went by the name “Sognatrice” (“dreamer” in Italian), but when I decided to link the blog with my professional writing, I dropped the pseudonym. But I do still dream, of course, during both the day and night.
- Who is P?
P is my sweet, adorable amore. His name isn’t a secret (it’s Paolo); I’m just too lazy to type it all the time. We’ve been together since May 2005.
- Who are Luna and Stella?
They are my sweet, adorable pooches. Luna came to live with us in August 2005 and Stella (pregnant at the time) in August 2007. Stella had six healthy puppies who have all been placed in loving homes.
- Who are Pasqualina, Margherita, and Carmelina?
They are my sweet, adorable kids (baby goats). Pasqualina came to live with us in February 2009, Margherita in May 2009, and Carmelina in June 2009.
More About Me
- How did you wind up in Calabria?
I came here on vacation in June 2002 to check out my great-great-grandfather’s village. While I was here, I found I didn’t want to leave and started imagining living here for a year, taking time out from the real world, which I had just entered following law school.
My judicial clerkship would be ending in August 2003, and I’d have to do something new anyway, so I decided to come here, try out freelance writing (which was what I had always really wanted to do), and see how it went. It went well, to put it mildly.
- Where exactly do you live?
I live in Badolato (Superiore) in the province of Catanzaro in Calabria, the toe of the boot. Badolato is where my great-great-grandfather was born and raised before going to America with his young family (his wife was from nearby Isca sull’Ionio), which included my great-grandmother, Concetta.
- Where are you from in America?
I was born and raised in the Mount Carmel area of the Anthracite Coal Region of Pennsylvania. I’m very proud of my Coal Region roots (as many of us are) and brag about our hard coal here all the time—I even brought a little bucket of it with me.
Italian Citizenship
- I’m interested in pursuing Italian citizenship, can you help?
Sure, although I do *not* offer the services of gathering or translating documents. What I will do is try to answer questions you may have about whether you qualify, the process, etc. all free of charge. Feel free to send me a message.
Calabria and Southern Italy
- I’d like to visit Calabria and/or southern Italy, do you have suggestions?
Yes, lots! Some of my favorite Calabrian spots are Tropea, Pizzo, Le Castella, and Serra San Bruno; I’ve traveled a bit in Sicily and have some favorites there as well, so, again, feel free to send a message.
Blogging
- How did you come up with the name Bleeding Espresso?
I’ve written about this at A Blog by Any Other Name.
- What are your suggestions for starting a blog?
The fastest and easiest way to start a blog is with a free service like Blogger or Wordpress, but if you have any inkling that you’ll keep up with it and expand, I suggest buying a domain, using Wordpress as your platform, and learning as you go.
The freedom to set up your blog exactly as you want it is worth the extra hassle at the beginning—and you also won’t have to change addresses and risk losing your readership later.
- Can you help me with my blog?
I can certainly try, although I can’t promise anything. I’m no expert, but I’m wiling to share what I’ve learned. Feel free to send me a message!
- What about monetizing a blog?
I’ve written a post about this here, and I’ll also add “Text Link Ads” to the list of ways I make money on this blog.
- How much money do you make on the blog?
Not enough! Seriously, without giving numbers, I’ll say it’s enough to cover operating costs although nothing even near what I’d make at a part-time job.
- Why do you have a PayPal button on your site?
I put up a PayPal button, which allows people to send me money, because some readers had expressed interest in donating to the cause (Bleeding Espresso) after I had helped them with dual citizenship, Italian/Calabrian travel plans, freelance writing, etc.
I offer all information and suggestions free of charge, but I also *greatly* appreciate those who understand how long it can take to reply to e-mails and share my experiences and suggestions—thus the PayPal button.
- What about copyrighting?
Your writing and photos are copyrighted the moment you put them into tangible form; you don’t need to register anything with anyone or put a little © on it to be protected. You can, though, put that © on your work as warning to anyone thinking of stealing that you’re watching and don’t appreciate being stolen from.
On the other hand, if you’re willing to share your work under certain circumstances, you can also investigate Creative Commons licenses.
- What about your photos—editing, watermarking, and where do you find photos not taken by you to use in posts?
I usually edit photos using Photoshop and watermark using the free version of uMark. Photos not taken by me that appear in blog posts almost always come from Flickr through Creative Commons licenses.
UPDATED: As I’ve now become a Mac girl, I use iPhoto for photo editing and iWatermark for watermarking (and in case you’re wondering, yes, iLoveMyMac).
- Have you had any privacy problems because of the blog?
No, at least not yet, but I will admit that if I lived in a more accessible location I would probably have very different concerns about being so public about my name, where I live, etc. Please use your own judgment regarding your personal circumstances.
Freelance Writing
- Can you offer advice about freelance writing?
Sure, and I have during Freelance Writing Week I and Freelance Writing Week II. If you have questions that aren’t covered there, feel free to send me a message.
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poppy fields on 29 May 2009 at 1:27 pm #
I learned some more about you today
I hope they’re good things
letizia mattiacci on 23 Jun 2009 at 8:51 pm #
Michelle, every time I read your blog I can’t stop being surprised at how generously you offer to help people. It’s quite extraordinary really! So glad I have “encountered” you through your blog, good work!
Aw, thanks so much Letizia! The blog gives me so much in terms of feeling in touch with the rest of the world, I’m more than happy to share whatever I’ve learned in my 30+ years
Christa Hyland on 26 Jun 2009 at 7:46 am #
Michelle,
Thank you for keeping such a wonderful blog. I recently found ‘bleeding espresso’ while searching for Nutella recipes (shame me), and since have thoroughly enjoyed reading your thoughts, recipes and zest for la dolce vita. Actually I’ve enjoyed it so much that I’ve added you to my ‘bookmarks bar’ which I think is quite a compliment for a non-techie.
Keep it coming, and thanks again.
Warm regards,
Christa
Aw, thanks Christa! Your kind words and support are very much appreciated
Rosina DeSantis on 11 Jul 2009 at 6:11 am #
Hi Michele,
I just stumbled on your web site. Wow, you are living the dream! We live in NM and dream about moving to Italy. We also visited where our parents and grandparents lived in Sicily. We are artists and my sig. other is an art teacher.
We’ve heard the jobs are scarce in the south. Do you have any suggestions?
Ciao,
Rosina
Jobs are indeed scarce, but as you two are artists, you’re probably used to creating your own work (literally!)…that just might come in handy here too
Hassan Khan on 02 Oct 2009 at 7:44 am #
Hi Michelle.
May be we’re two different people from two far-away lands however I feel that I share a similar passion in my heart to live my dreams and to go above and beyond the usual practices of life.
The most aspiring thing (after reading a bunch of articles on this website) about you is your strength and phenomenal courage by which you’ve broken the shackles and reached out to realize your dreams.
I admire you and hope that may one day we can sit across the table, enjoying our hot espresso cups (btw I like Chai Tea Latte’).
Regards,
Hassan Khan
Sounds like you are pursuing your dreams as well Hassan…best of luck!
Michael Russo on 07 Oct 2009 at 12:15 am #
Michelle,
My parents and I are going through the dual citizenship process. We too fell in love with our homeland, especially Lucania/Basilicata.
I love your blog. By the way are you single?! That should be on the FAQ list.
cordiali saluti,
Michael Russo
Hah, Michael; it kind of *is* in there under the “Who is P?” question
Best of luck with your citizenship process; it’s *so* worth it
rosemarie on 13 Jan 2010 at 6:27 pm #
The world is very small. My dad is from Serra San Bruno. My grandmother, uncle, aunt, and tons of cousins all still live there.
I love Serra San Bruno! Definitely one of my favorite spots in Calabria (the certosa)
Jenny Woolf on 16 Jan 2010 at 4:03 pm #
Wow! I was impressed at the idea of leaving home to be a writer – an inspirational tale. Were you raised speaking Italian, and do you write for Italian media now?
No I didn’t speak Italian growing up–I knew next to no Italian when I came here. Basically “ciao” and some other functional fundamental phrases. I don’t write for Italian media largely because I haven’t put the time into learning proper, written Italian just yet….
marco on 16 Jan 2010 at 5:26 pm #
ciao!
I am working on my citizenship as well and have all the documents
do you foresee any disadvantages to having dual citizenship
has it ever been used against you in regards to your us citizenship?
retirement? social security?
just being cautious and proceeding with due diligence
grazie!
marco
Hi Marco, I haven’t had any adverse effects, but the biggest one that is mentioned is the possibility of not being able to obtain security clearance on some government jobs; if that’s something that concerns you, be sure to investigate more
Best of luck!
Anne Marie on 07 Feb 2010 at 1:04 am #
I don’t know how I stumbled across your website but I’m glad I did. I admire you for taking a chance and doing something like this. But, one question…..Do you mean to tell me your Italian mother isn’t horrified that you live so far away? Do you have brothers and sisters?
Anne Marie
I have one brother (married, two kids, lives within minutes of my parents); my mom isn’t Italian, and she’s happy for me–but my neighbors here think it’s rather horrible that I live so far from her (“Poverina!” they say….)
Angelo on 19 Feb 2010 at 8:06 pm #
What is the weather like over there this time of the year? My family is from Pescara on the Adriatic.
Right now we have something like an early spring–temps in the 60s and sun–but just last week it was in the 40s and rainy. This time of year is very unpredictable, if anything!